“Our culture only dimly remembers the festival of Imbolc, once a celebration of the visibly longer days and of the sacredness of the fire, particularly the hearth fire…. If we step outside for a few moments today, we can feel the difference in the winter stillness. Though the ground may be covered in a pall of snow, there is a new freshness in the air, and a sense of possibility, a softly humming energy in the earth. Suddenly, we realise that our winter time of rest and retreat is nearly over and that soon all of nature will be dancing and singing again.
Imbolc celebrates the first stirring of the seeds, deep within the womb of earth. Just a nature is beginning to waken under it’s covering of snow, the birds to sing again, the seeds to put forth the first tiny shoots, so we can feel ourselves beginning to look ahead… to the plans and projects we will work on bringing to fruition in the greening season that is nearly here.”
‘Imbolc. Stirring of the Seeds. February 2nd.’
from Celebrating the Great Mother by Cait Johnson and Maura D Shaw
We’ve been big on seasonal celebrations for years now and my children’s appetite for it is seemingly endless. A couple of years ago a friend shared this book with me and invited a handful of women to her house for each festival in the Celtic wheel of the year. I really enjoyed learning about the way the eight festivals of the year were marked and the shifting of the seasons celebrated. Such a lovely way to really dig into the seasons and re-connect with a time when we would have been so much closer to them. I’ve shared some of what I learnt about the festivals with my boys since and I’d like to do more of that with them this year.
Many of the Celtic festivals are known to us by other names or in other guises. Yule being the Winter Solstice and falling just before Christmas Day, Ostara being close to Easter in date and in name, Samhain being the same day as Halloween. In their more modern guise we may already be marking some of them and I’ve found it lovely to learn about the roots of these festivals. There’s such beauty in the simplicity of them, their connection to the earth and how they give a deeper rhythm to the year than four seasons can.
So I thought I’d write here a bit about how I intend on marking them with my children. I’m nice and late with this first one, skidding in on the afternoon of the day itself. But I think that’s part of the point. It doesn’t need to be a big event, planned for ages and fussed over. It can all be last minute, a day or a week late, thrown together and very simple. Children don’t mind. Each of the festivals in the wheel of the year mark a time. They usually are centered around a particular day and it can be nice to have that date in the diary, but sometimes, for me, the date itself becomes more of a nudge. A reminder to slow down and notice. Notice the changes around, notice the light, notice what’s happening on the ground – in the garden, on walks. Notice what’s different than it was before.
This is forever the best game to play with children. They love and are excellent at the noticing. And if they’re distracted and a little detached, it just takes for me to say ‘ let’s see what’s different today’ while we walk our dog and they’re there instantly.
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Simple ways to celebrate
The simplest ways to celebrate any of the Celtic festivals are repeating the same two things. The time of year is what makes them feel completely different.
Nature table – It’s common for people who observe the Celtic/Pagan festivals to create an altar in their home. That word freaked me out when I first came across it until I realised that I basically have one laid out all through the year. We call it our nature table! Ours, these days, is on our playroom windowsill. Each season we lay it out and it gets added to and evolves over the weeks and months. It’s always beautiful and uses colour, nature finds, sweet things we’ve made or gathered, prints and seasonal books to reflect the season. It’s a lovely thing and this year I’m thinking about how we add to it for each festival.
A walk and some food – if we do nothing else to mark each festival, because life is too full or it creeps up on us or something, what we can and will do is to go for a walk and have some food. Heck, we have a dog so we’ll be walking anyway and we need to eat. So just wrapping those things we’ll already be doing in an intention and being a bit more thoughtful about them will be an easy way to connect. Noticing what we notice on the walk, chatting about what we see and hear and smell and feel. They’ll often draw what they’ve seen when we get back (lots of snowdrops being drawn at the moment). Taking a picnic or coming home to a meal or a snack which reflects the time we’re honouring. If we do nothing else, I’ll be satisfied that we slowed and paid attention.
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So today is Imbolc (pronounced: IM-ULK), the festival that marks the return of the light, the earth waking up and looking to the possibilities ahead of us as we gradually begin to emerge from winter hibernation. Candlemas, the Christian festival, is also celebrated on 2nd February and bears a strong resemblance in the way it’s celebrated.
It’s a lovely festival to observe with children because the changes are so noticeable. After a bare first half of the Winter the snowdrops are up, springtime bulbs are beginning to poke their shoots up through the soil, those of us with veg patches are beginning to talk about what we’ll plant this year. There’s a change in the air, even though we still have a good bit of winter left, our energy seems to shift gear a little as we leave January behind and – the game changer – there’s still a little light in the sky at (our quite early) dinnertime. It’s still Winter, yes, but we sense the green season to come.
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Imbolc things to do with children
Here are few ideas for things you can do with your littles if you want to, on top of or instead of the nature table and the walk plus food. I just want to note before I dive in that I will not be doing all of these with my children. There will be no Imbolc overachieving. I am over overachieving. We’ll do what there’s time for and what my lot are interested in and leave the rest for another year (or never!). These are ideas rather than a tick list. I refuse to be part of the social media / internet plague of adding to your ‘if I were a good parent I’d be doing (insert thing you don’t have time for) with my kids’ list. If you continue reading please do so on the understanding that if you do none of these things, it’s fine, because you are already a good parent I’m sure. Also, I’ve learnt from experience to think about whether my children are the right age to enjoy a given activity and whether they’re actually in the mood. Nobody wants a swipey toddler near hot wax or a sullen, tired 9 year old having to be coaxed through the supposed-to-be joyous making of something.
An earth candle or light garden – as Imbolc is said to be about waking the seeds hidden below the ground and warming up the earth ready for the growing season it can be lovely to represent this for children with the warmth of candlelight. An earth candle for older children can be lovely, whereby you dig a small dip in the soil, hold a wick in place and carefully pour in melted wax. Lighting the candle once it’s hardened. For younger ones, gathering a few lanterns or empty jam jars to pop tea lights in, placed around the garden or an outside space on the earth as the light fades. (Usual candle safety considerations apply of course!). My two have some kindergarten songs about snowdrops and little bulbs hidden in the earth locked into their memories, so you’ll usually find one or other of them singing them as they go around the garden.
Candle-making – to indulge my own interest and use some little jars I’ve been saving, my little and I are going to make essential oil soy wax candles this month. My box of oils are a source of interest so we’ll have some fun coming up with lovely blends and use the candles we make at home and as gifts.
A fire outside – many Imbolc traditions speak to it being a time to warm the earth, so a little fire in a fire pit to cook something over can be lovely. I saw an Insta post yesterday of somebody (@bradshawandsons, I think it was) making hot chocolate over their fire in the snow. I can get behind that idea.
Veg-patch planning – this is something we need to do anyway and my two love being involved. They’re already talking about what they’d like us to grow and what could go where so I might use this time to pin it all down and draw out a plan with them. The possibilities and the looking ahead to the growing season are perfect for the Imbolc energy.
Wassailing – I think I’m right in saying that this tradition has no official relationship to Imbolc (am I right?) but it falls around the same time of year and with many Imbolc traditions being about warming up and waking up the earth, wassailing seems to fit in beautifully to my mind. Traditionally wassailing was a communities way of coming together to bless the trees in their orchards and send away evil spirits so as to hopefully get good crop. I’m sure the tradition varies but generally there’s singing and lanterns and a fire. We’ve been invited to our first wassail and my boys are very excited, so we’ll definitely be doing this once. You might find one in your area if you’re quick.
Making bird-feeders – a much loved activity in our house and there are so many different ways. Pine cones stuffed with coconut oil, nut butter or vegetable suet mixed with seeds are brilliantly messy and fun. We’ve also used empty yoghurt pots as moulds before. For young ones, though the miss the ‘seed’ theme, pipe cleaners threaded with ‘Whole O’ cereals and bent into a circle to hang from branches is fun and great for fine motor skill development. My 5 year old will happily make these still.
Protecting the shoots – in our old kindergarten there had been so many bulbs planted by the families over the years that they popped up in clumps all over the garden. The teachers at this time of year would give the children the special task of protecting the young shoots and the children would eagerly find all the shoots in the garden and place little rings of pebbles around each clump to show where people should be careful with their step. Such a sweet thing with the threefold benefit of the children excitedly discovering the new shoots, helping them to conscious of not trampling them and giving the children a sense of stewardship of the garden. If you have shoots coming up in a garden or even see some at a park this can be a sweet thing for the children to be involved in.
Seedy muffins or flapjacks – we bake once a week (while my youngest is homeschooled) so on our next baking day we’ll probably tweak one of our favourite recipes to make it extra seedy. Maybe this could be the celebratory food we take on our walk or have by the fire when we get home. Other food traditions for Imbolc are food with a hidden surprise inside. The book I mentioned at the start of the post suggests a muffin with a surprise pocket of jam inside, representing the surprises that are waiting just out of sight in the earth, readying themselves for the Spring. A sweet idea.
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As you can tell, I’m pretty easygoing about how we mark these festivals, just that we do in some small way. I find it grounding and it slows us down a little, giving markers throughout the year to anticipate and to look back on. With my youngest home with me each day at the moment, we can take our time with this, spreading some of the activities out over the week or even month ahead and following his interest in whichever direction it goes.
It’s often said that we have many more than four seasons and I like that these Celtic wheel of the year festivals give us 8 points to pause and notice with our children what’s happening around us. I definitely need that as much as they do.
Do you have any Imbolc traditions or activities for this time of year that you do with your children? Share your thoughts in the comments below if you’d like to.